I do… but only with a prenup

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It’s a common misconception that prenups are only for the wealthy. Indeed, there are many reasons to consider a prenuptial agreement, even if you don’t have substantial pre-marriage assets to protect.

After all, with over one in three modern marriages now ending in divorce, it’s sensible to think about the consequences of your relationship ending even before you say “I do”.

Whilst we all begin marriage with notions of wedded bliss, entering into a prenup shouldn’t be seen as planning for divorce. In fact, agreeing an exit plan with your spouse before you marry is a smart move and one that could save you a significant sum of money further down the line.

We look at the benefits of prenups and whether one is right for you.

What is a prenuptial agreement?

A prenuptial – or ‘prenup’ – is a legal agreement that you sign before you get married or enter a civil partnership.

Within this agreement you’ll set out your individual assets at the time of your marriage. It’ll also detail precisely how your assets – including money, investments and property – will be divided in the event of separation or divorce.

Is a prenup legally binding?

Whilst not currently enforceable under English Law, prenuptial agreements are increasingly being given more and more weight in divorce proceedings.

A prenup actually serves as a useful indicator of your intentions at the time of your marriage or civil partnership. So assuming you’ve made it willingly, taken legal advice, disclosed your assets in full and it’s fair on the face of it, it’s likely that a court will decide that the prenup settles matters between you.

It’s worth remembering that the court always has the final say though. The Judge also has the right to disregard any agreement if it’s considered to be unfair, particularly towards children.

What is the benefit of a prenup?

The basic premise of a prenup is to protect the interests of both parties in the event that you separate or divorce.

You may own family assets or property from before your current relationship. Or maybe you have children from a previous relationship and want to ensure their financial security. If you want to protect or safeguard anything that you own yourself, a prenuptial agreement is a good way of doing so.

Let’s not forget that if things don’t go to plan, a prenuptial agreement can save you time and money by ensuring that you don’t end up in a long and bitter court dispute with your partner.

But before you enter into a prenup, you’ll need to be honest about your finances. This can never be a bad thing. Money can be a major source of contention between couples, so setting out your assets in a prenup gives both of you the opportunity to find a balance.

Is a prenup for me?

A degree of scepticism about prenuptial agreements is natural. Many people are reluctant to consider them and indeed, one of the many criticisms levelled at prenups is that they’re ‘unromantic’.

Try not to think about prenups in negative terms. Instead consider your agreement as an insurance policy. By taking it out before you commit to marriage or a civil partnership, you’re securing yourself against a potentially messy, if not expensive, divorce.

On the other hand, you may assume that a prenup isn’t necessary for you as you don’t have significant assets at this point in time.

Maybe that’s so, but we recommend that you get independent legal advice to clarify your position if you own assets that were acquired before your current relationship, you own a business or a share in a business, you stand to come into an inheritance or you have children from a previous relationship.

Final advice

Nothing stops a conversation dead in its tracks quicker than the mention of a prenup. But sitting down with your partner to discuss potential problems can only make that transition from wedded bliss to separation that much easier, if it does happen.

If you’re not sure, speak to a family law solicitor before you tie the knot. They can tell you honestly whether you should consider a prenup. They can also talk you through the pros and cons of entering into one.

Of course, it’s never going to be easy to countenance the possibility of your marriage or civil partnership not working out. And it’s even harder to detail what will happen to your assets if that actually happens.

But better now, whilst your relationship is solid and your intentions are clear than in court and before a Judge.

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